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Tips for Expatriates

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The first thing you notice when you get off the plane is that everyone is speaking another language. Another thing you will notice is that the Germans appear to be extremely conscientious and not as friendly as the Americans. But appearances can be deceiving. If given the chance, Germans can be as warm and open as Americans. And they aren't as punctual as everyone believes... ;-)

I have met some wonderful people here, and my networking skills have come in very handy. My father taught me by example to not be afraid to ask a lot of questions. As a result, I have built up a support network here that can't be beat. I have found a good car, lucrative jobs, and excellent handymen just by asking the right people the right questions. So start talking with your neighbors or that woman standing next to you at the bus stop, and don't be afraid to ask questions.

Bonn has a lot of opportunities for English-speaking citizens. Since the embassies were here, the people of Bonn learned to be more tolerant of different cultures. We also have a lot of really great stores that have a large variety of goods. Hit, Kaufhof and a lot stores in Godesberg and Plittersdorf have many American and British products if you just know where to look.

Some of these hints are from the American Women's Club of Cologne Bulletin and the IWC Connection newsletter and some are my own. I hope they help you survive in Germany.

My first big tip is don't be mad at yourself if you find yourself complaining about the size of the refrigerators, general unfriendliness, lack of ice in restaurants, bureaucracy, etc. It is natural to grieve a bit when adjusting to a major change in our lives. Some days will be better than others, and some days you just won't be able to cope at all. Just put a lid on it after a few months. Other foreigners, who have been here longer, and Germans we meet get tired of hearing us complain. Take it from me - I'm very vocal when something is going on that I don't like. Enough to have irritated some of my friends so much that they told me point-blank that if I don't like it here I should move home. Get out, join some clubs, take a class or two, talk with your neighbors. Savor your experiences here while you have the chance. I for one am taking full advantage of my last few months here.

Living overseas is usually exciting, often challenging, and rarely easy. Need help or answers? Here are some organizations that may help (from the State Department's newsletter):

* United States Embassy Berlin http://www.usembassy.de - The official web site of the American Embassy in Berlin and its constituent posts in Dusseldorf, Frankfurt, Hamburg, Leipzig, and Munich. The site contains a wealth of information of interest to American citizens throughout Germany.

* American Citizens Abroad http://www.aca.ch - A nonprofit nonpartisan association dedicated to serving and defending the interests of individual US citizens living worldwide.

* Association of Americans Resident Abroad http://aaro-intl.org/index.html - Founded in 1973, the Association of Americans Resident Overseas (AARO) is a not-for-profit, non-partisan, public service organization representing United States citizens living abroad.

* Expatriate Exchange http://www.expatexchange.com - The Expatriate Exchange was founded in 1997 and has become the largest online community for English-speaking expatriates. Comprised of over 140 country and topic networks that can be accessed for FREE, the community has supported over 500,000 expats through all phases of the expatriation and repatriation process.

* Federation of American Women’s Clubs Overseas http://www.fawco.org - The Federation of American Women's Clubs Overseas Inc. is an international network of 76 independent clubs with a combined membership of over 17,000 women in 34 countries worldwide. It serves as a support network for American women living and working abroad and is particularly active in the fields of U.S. citizens' concerns, education, environmental protection, and women's and children's rights.

* Are you a Uniformed Services member or dependent? Are you a U.S. citizen living overseas?
In 2004, you can take part in an exciting new initiative called SERVE (Secure Electronic Registration and Voting Experiment), which will let eligible U.S. citizens vote from any Windows-based computer with Internet access, anywhere in the world!
The Secure Electronic Registration and Voting Experiment, or SERVE, is a project aimed at providing Uniformed Services members and overseas citizens the ability to register, vote and check their status throughout the absentee voting process. The Federal Voting Assistance Program (FVAP, http://www.fvap.gov) wants you to be able to exercise your democratic right in a safe, convenient, reliable and timely manner, by bringing the voting booth to you through the Internet. The FVAP has taken all by-mail absentee election functions, and placed them on the Internet. Anyone with a Windows-based computer and an Internet browser will be able to vote without worrying if your ballot will arrive on time. You will even be able to check the status of your registration, your ballot request and see if your vote was counted. SERVE will let you:  Register to vote, Check the status of your registration, your ballot availability, and your voted ballot, Request your absentee ballot, Vote Find out how you can participate by visiting this site: http://www.serveusa.gov.

* Democrats Abroad http://www.democratsabroad.org - Democrats Abroad is the official Democratic Party organization for some six million American citizens who live outside the United States.

* Republicans Abroad http://www.republicansabroad.com/index.htm - Republicans Abroad is the international arm of the Republican Party, formed to enlist the personal energy and leadership of Republicans living overseas.

Also, I just discovered this great page with tips about televisions, available channels, and the Gebühreneinzugzentrale

Some hints that might be helpful:

Tips for getting along with your German neighbors and co-workers

Eating out

Shopping and Cooking

Miscellaneous tips

Some links for expatriates in Bonn (if you have any tips you would like to share with others feel free to contact me):

I was recently asked for some links for expats for the AWCC bulletin. I did a bit of additional research on the subject and came up with the following links for expats:

Are there any I may have missed? Also, information changes, so if you see something here that needs correction, please e-mail me by clicking on the logo to the left.

© Jill R. Sommer, July 2000
Last modified: January 2005